英语阅读翻译步骤5

17、Be a good listener. Listen carefully to what  people say, remember important details about them, ask questions about their interests, and just take the time to learn more about them.

倾听别人，记住关于他们的一些细节，询问他们的兴趣爱好，多花些时间了解他们。

18、Be trustworthy The key to being a good confidante is the ability to keep secrets, so it's no secret that you shoudn't tell other people things that were told to you in confidence . before people even feel comfortable opening up to you, however,you need to build trust.

要值得信赖，做知己重要的是能为别人保守秘密。所以如果有人要求你保守秘密，你绝不能向其他人提起。想要别人对你无话不谈，你应该在他们的心目中建立起信任感。

19、Be there for the person . Part of being a friend is being prepared to make sacrifices of your time and energy in order to help out your friends if a friend needs help with an unpleasant chore, or if he or she just needs a shoulder to cry on ,be there.

做朋友的坚强后盾。朋友间的交往意味着你需哟啊付出时间和精力来倾听或者帮助他们，如果有朋友需要你的帮助，不管这件事多么让你不舒服，或者他/她只是需要靠在你的肩膀大哭一场，请做好他们的后盾。